Shadow Wedding Basics
After an initial consultation, we design a game plan to meet the needs of each couple. This plan generally includes three to five meetings (about once a month) before the Shadow Wedding ritual. Ideally, couples begin the process four to six months before they get married.
In our two-on-two meetings, we cover the following essential components of creating a Shadow Wedding:
- Identify your shadow material
- Create shadow vows out of that material
- Design your Shadow Wedding ritual
Throughout the entire process, we maintain an emphasis on safety, kindness, and self-responsibility. This is tender ground for everyone, and we are mindful of the personal limits of those who participate. We encourage each couple to only go as deep as feels right for them.
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